Senin, 08 Desember 2008

Akhire Munyuk Pedot Tresno Meneh Kalihan Bulus(Desember'08)

(08:45:44) jayeng_windu: sek to yu, seko atimu dewe tenane kw isih pingin trus po ora
(08:48:53) jayeng_windu: dadi kesimpulane kw wis wegah neruske yo
(08:51:19) jayeng_windu: lha nak wis ra perlu dilanjut ngopo ndadakdi bahas
(08:51:24) jayeng_windu: wsi dinengke wae
(08:51:34) jayeng_windu: dianggep pelajaran wae
(08:51:48) jayeng_windu: mergo arep diapak2no tetep ra iso dilanjut
(08:51:54) jayeng_windu: sing sbr wae 
(08:58:02) jayeng_windu: saiki ra sah tok pikir wae deweke
(08:58:12) jayeng_windu: istilahi buka lembaran anyar
(08:58:43) jayeng_windu: mergo saiki kw isih mikir deweke ning kw kan ra dong to deweke isih mikir kw po ora
(08:59:02) jayeng_windu: mlh mungkin saiki deweke wis lali opo mlh wis seneng2 kr kancane
(08:59:29) jayeng_windu: makane ra sah tok pikir meneh, ndk ming marahi mangkel
(08:59:55) jayeng_windu: kui saranku, mergo wi sjls ra iso dilanjut
(09:00:19) jayeng_windu: nak perkoro kw mangkel kr deweke, yo cen resiko kui
(09:00:57) jayeng_windu: tok kei wektu seminggu po pirang ndino lek mangkel, bar kui ra sah di gagas meneh
(09:01:25) jayeng_windu: iki nalar wae ra sah anggo emosi lek mikir
(09:01:43) jayeng_windu: ning cen kadang rodo angel 
(09:01:59) jayeng_windu: ning usahakno ngono kui lek mensikapi
(09:02:26) jayeng_windu: ben lek raw kedowo2
(09:07:27) jayeng_windu: sek to, ra sah ngrembuk mbokmu ndisik
(09:07:39) jayeng_windu: nak saranku koyo nguno ku iyu
(09:10:09) jayeng_windu: yo ra sah piye2, biasa wae
(09:12:41) jayeng_windu: yo mungkin nak dlm waktu dekat iki rung iso
(09:12:54) jayeng_windu: ning nak wis rodo sak untoro mesti iso
(09:13:05) jayeng_windu: kbh mau pancen bth wektu
(09:13:16) jayeng_windu: makane nak kw merasa rung iso ngono kui 
(09:13:27) jayeng_windu: yo diusahake ojo ketemu ro deweke ndisik
(09:13:41) jayeng_windu: piye carane ojo nganti ketemu ndisik
(09:15:06) jayeng_windu: lha yo wis ra sah dimlhke
(09:15:24) jayeng_windu: lha durung karuan ketemu kok ndadak tok pikir
(09:16:32) jayeng_windu: kw ki terlalu emosional lek mensikapi situasi
(09:16:40) jayeng_windu: dadi itungane kw mlh rugi dewe
(09:18:52) jayeng_windu: jane angel je menilai uwong ki
(09:19:00) jayeng_windu: mergo akeh lek kleru
(09:19:14) jayeng_windu: tenane piye awakdewe yo ra dong
(09:20:02) jayeng_windu: paling ming berdasarkan lek srawung to bhne lek dienggo menilai
(09:20:15) jayeng_windu: pd hal kui durung karuan bener
(09:20:28) jayeng_windu: ning mungkin iso mendekati
(09:20:48) jayeng_windu: saiki ra sah menilai uwong wae
(09:20:58) jayeng_windu: biasane nak menilai uwong ki mesti sing elek je
(09:21:14) jayeng_windu: terutama nak kasus bar pedot lek pcran
(09:21:23) jayeng_windu: ra ono apike blas
(09:21:31) jayeng_windu: lha rak marahi doso to
(09:21:42) jayeng_windu: karo marahi mangkel
(09:21:54) jayeng_windu: sing penting saiki kedepane wae
(09:22:12) jayeng_windu: karo sisan dienggo introspeksi 
(09:22:20) jayeng_windu: ben kedepane luwih apik
(09:22:55) jayeng_windu: iki jare pujangga2 jaman dulkabluk sadurunge jaman rekiplik
(09:23:34) jayeng_windu: penak to nak lek mensikapi hubungane ra menungso dinggonoke
(09:23:58) jayeng_windu: mergo kedua belah pihak wis jls ra iso disatukan
(09:25:25) jayeng_windu: yo koyo ngono kui rung jaminan
(09:26:00) jayeng_windu: mulai saiki ra sah gagas meneh
(09:26:05) jayeng_windu: dong ra kw ki
(09:26:43) jayeng_windu: yo wis, ngono kui dadu kethok lek mannis
(09:28:20) jayeng_windu: kw mau crito,deweke ki seneng ro awakmu ning ra seneng ro atimu ki piye larah2e yu
(09:30:04) jayeng_windu: nak menilai ming dasare seko koyo ngono kui rung karuan bener
(09:33:03) jayeng_windu: nak mslh pcr, nak wis pedot ra sah perlu dinilai 
(09:33:16) jayeng_windu: mergane mesti penilaine sepihak 
(09:33:38) jayeng_windu: trus mesti ming ngelek2 bks pacre awakedewe
(09:33:51) jayeng_windu: opo meneh lek pedot ra apik
(09:34:17) jayeng_windu: makane nak aku lek mensikapi yo ming nyobo nglaleke wae
(09:34:32) jayeng_windu: perkoro isih mangkel opo rugi lan liya2ne
(09:34:44) jayeng_windu: pd saatnya mengko dadi ilang deweke
(09:35:04) jayeng_windu: ning cen bth wektu, tergantung manusiane dewe2
(09:38:45) jayeng_windu: anggelyo ngandani kw ki
(09:39:17) jayeng_windu: diomongi ra sah digenahke, sing mutus ki arep wong 2 po dewe2 ra sah dimasahke
(09:39:22) jayeng_windu: sing jelas wis putus
(09:39:32) jayeng_windu: kan ra mungkin to,deweke mutus
(09:39:41) jayeng_windu: trus kw ngomong nak wegah diputus
(09:39:53) jayeng_windu: yo to, ra mungkin to
(09:40:11) jayeng_windu: makane sing mutus seko pihak ngendi wae ra sah tok masalahke
(09:40:15) jayeng_windu: sing jelas wis putus
(09:40:29) jayeng_windu: ra ketang saiki sing mutus pihak lanang
(09:41:08) jayeng_windu: nak kw pingin mutus, yo suk golek pcr mnh trus pas berjalan 3 wulan, kw ngomong ro pcrmu kui nak putus wae lek pacaran
(09:41:25) jayeng_windu: dadi kw ben ngrasake mutus
(09:41:38) jayeng_windu: ora ming ngrasahke diputus
(09:41:49) jayeng_windu: ben ono selingane
(09:42:40) jayeng_windu: lha kw ki sing tok pikir kok ndadak lek mutus kudu bareng2
(09:43:04) jayeng_windu: nak hubungan ngono kui ki iso sing mutus ki ming sepihak
(09:43:16) jayeng_windu: dadi kw ra sah menuntut kudu putus bareng2
(09:43:29) jayeng_windu: niat mlh ra sido putus
(09:44:01) jayeng_windu: lha tembunge wae ning tenane yo karepe tetep arep putus
(09:44:31) jayeng_windu: aku ki dong sing ra dong ki mlh kw
(09:44:55) jayeng_windu: ono wong wis wegah putus kok kw isih nggondeli dng berbagai alasan
(09:45:44) jayeng_windu: lha nak aku dadi kw, nak dijak putus yo tak putus wae
(09:46:01) jayeng_windu: mergo nak wis niat putus ning tetep digondeli
(09:46:10) jayeng_windu: akhire hubungane tetep ra nyaman
(09:46:26) jayeng_windu: kethoke wae ra putus ning tenane atine tetep ra nyaman
(09:46:48) jayeng_windu: lha omonganmu ki isih ra trimo nak putus je
(09:47:15) jayeng_windu: kudune kw ki nak putus,nak pancen kw ra nggondelo 
(09:47:22) jayeng_windu: ngondeli*
(09:47:38) jayeng_windu: kudune sikapmu yo sing iklas, ra sah tok dadekne mslh
(09:48:19) jayeng_windu: kw ora nggondeli ning kata2mu ki isih ra trimo nak putus
(09:48:24) jayeng_windu: kan podo wae kui
(09:48:53) jayeng_windu: aku ki dong, sing tak omongke nang kene ki 
(09:49:02) jayeng_windu: aku ming arep ngekei masukan kr kw
(09:49:20) jayeng_windu: ben kw lek mensikapi sing penak
(09:49:31) jayeng_windu: ojo nganti mlh ngrugekne kw 
(09:49:55) jayeng_windu: rungo9kno ndisik yu
(09:50:44) jayeng_windu: iki sing tak omongke ki kw lek mensikapi kahane koyo ngene lho yo
(09:50:51) jayeng_windu: dadi ojo mbahas liyane
(09:50:59) jayeng_windu: dadi nak ono wong pcran
(09:51:09) jayeng_windu: iki nak aku lho yo
(09:51:22) jayeng_windu: ono wong pcran trus salah satu pihak nnjaluk pedot
(09:51:34) jayeng_windu: njaluk pedot ki kalimate iso macam2 lho
(09:51:52) jayeng_windu: gari tergantung menungsone 
(09:52:13) jayeng_windu: contone koyo pcrmu mau
(09:52:17) jayeng_windu: intine jane arep medot
(09:52:23) jayeng_windu: ning deweke lek omong
(09:52:41) jayeng_windu: karep arep pedot sesuai kesepakatan bareng2
(09:52:50) jayeng_windu: ning intine kan arep medot 
(09:53:16) jayeng_windu: lha nak iso sepakt bareng2 ra mungkin arep medot
(09:53:42) jayeng_windu: lha lek medot ki mergo wis ra iso sepakat bareng
(09:54:07) jayeng_windu: sepakt dlh pengertiane semuanya lho yo
(09:54:28) jayeng_windu: lha nak situasine wis ky ngono
(09:54:44) jayeng_windu: kudune nak arep nyaman yo pedot wae
(09:55:00) jayeng_windu: mergo lek nglakoni hubungan jelas ming separo ati
(09:55:14) jayeng_windu: delet2 mesti timbul mslh
(09:55:27) jayeng_windu: makane sing bijaksana yo ra sah ono hubungan meneh
(09:55:52) jayeng_windu: ning biasane pihak sing dijak pedot ki ora iso nerimo kahanan ky ngono kui
(09:55:58) jayeng_windu: kui manusiawi
(09:56:06) jayeng_windu: kbh uwong mesti ky ngono kui
(09:56:21) jayeng_windu: ra ketang lek omong muni ra po2 nign tenane atine isih anggo mangkel
(09:56:40) jayeng_windu: cebo takonono atimu dewe
(09:56:51) jayeng_windu: tenane kw kan isih mangkel to
(09:57:03) jayeng_windu: mergo situasi koyo ngene iki
(09:57:17) jayeng_windu: lha makane, nak wis jelas ngono kui
(09:57:25) jayeng_windu: kan ra ono gunane dimangkeli
(09:57:34) jayeng_windu: kw ra iso menuntut deweke
(09:57:43) jayeng_windu: ming isane mangkel 
(09:57:49) jayeng_windu: pd hal kui ra ono gunane
(09:58:07) jayeng_windu: sak mangkel2mu ra mungkin hubungan kui disambung meneh
(09:58:16) jayeng_windu: contone ky weduse kui
(09:58:25) jayeng_windu: pwecuma to kw mangkeli deweke
(09:58:32) jayeng_windu: rugi dewe
(09:58:46) jayeng_windu: makane nak manut aku 
(09:58:58) jayeng_windu: kw ki ra sah anggo mangkel
(09:59:04) jayeng_windu: sing pedot yo wis pedot wae
(09:59:14) jayeng_windu: kbh mau dienggo pelajarab
(09:59:18) jayeng_windu: pelajaran
(09:59:29) jayeng_windu: nak ish terjadi meneh
(09:59:45) jayeng_windu: yo jenenge kw ki isih bodo lek golek pcr
(10:00:01) jayeng_windu: ning nak wis kasil iso dadi bojomu
(10:00:19) jayeng_windu: berarti kui ki jen jodohmu
(10:00:29) jayeng_windu: kersane gusti allah
(10:00:55) jayeng_windu: dadi sing sumarah, pasrah ning usaha
(10:01:18) jayeng_windu: ra sah digetuni, dimangkeli, blas ra ono gunane
(10:01:31) jayeng_windu: dong ra ki, nganti kesel aku lek ngetik
(10:01:45) jayeng_windu: saiki anggo sikil lek ngetik
(10:01:55) jayeng_windu: jempol sikil iki
(10:02:03) jayeng_windu: ra sah cengengesan yo
(10:02:21) jayeng_windu: apik to ketikanku arepo anggo jempol siki
(10:02:41) jayeng_windu: nganti tetes2 iduku
(10:03:58) jayeng_windu: nangis ki ra po2, kadang2 perlu ning ojo berlarut2
(10:04:06) jayeng_windu: sak madya wae
(10:04:22) jayeng_windu: bar kui, lupakan semuanya
(10:04:37) jayeng_windu: nak aku pedot ro pcrku lek mensikapi yo ngono kui
(10:04:58) jayeng_windu: nak ndonyo isih akeh wedhokan sing luwih apik
(10:05:12) jayeng_windu: ra ketang nak enthuk meneh mlh luwih elek hehehehe

(10:05:40) jayeng_windu: ning kan pd saat pedhot iso dienggo ngleremke ati

(10:15:58) jayeng_windu: aku tak takon yo ning iki ra sah didadekne ati

(10:16:54) jayeng_windu: secara fisik kw ro deweke lek pcran ki wis sejauh apa
(10:20:59) jayeng_windu: nak aku menilai, jane pacaranmu ki isih wajar2 wae
(10:21:07) jayeng_windu: manusiawi kok kui
(10:21:23) jayeng_windu: ning iki kbh mau bali nang menungsane dewe2
(10:21:37) jayeng_windu: ojo tok hubungke kr agomo
(10:21:52) jayeng_windu: iki hubungan manusia karo manusia
(10:22:13) jayeng_windu: dadi nak menurut aku kui isih wajar
(10:22:28) jayeng_windu: sing penting ora melakukan hubungna badan
(10:22:46) jayeng_windu: dadi kw rasah merasa mangkel opo berkecil hati
(10:23:20) jayeng_windu: isih dlm bts2 wajar secara normatif

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